Those who have dated know that dating can be difficult at times
, minutes can seem like hours as the conversations become dry and you end up talking about the topics none of you cared about. Whether it is online dating or mobile dating, there are a couple of good ways to make that first impression on a date. Things that you need to know before going on a mobile phone date are:
Topics you must avoid:
If you got a date through a mobile dating application, you will have to be selective about the topics of conversation because mobile phone dating is instant and does not give you much time to prepare. Avoid topics such as ex boyfriend, fianc or husband in the first few dates. How good or bad your previous dates were has nothing to do with the present date and should be avoided. Men straight away think one of two things if you talk about your ex during a date. Either you're still interested in your ex, or you're upset and sad about being dumped.
Be yourself
It may sound clich but the best way to impress your date is to be yourself. Do not pull out all the stops of being girl next door or a sexy kitten if you are not one. If you try too hard, you will only get yourself stuck in a role and your date will be offended by your dishonesty later. Whether you liked your date or not honesty is the best way to make an impression.
Accept compliments
Most men complain that women cannot take a compliment properly. If he tells you that you look lovely, accept it and say thank you. Dont accuse him of just saying that or go into details about how and why you look the way you do, just acknowledge the compliment and move on. One thing about location based mobile dating is that you do not get the time to prepare yourself and if he gives you a compliment even if you are without make up or arent dressed up for a date. He really means it!