Experiences - in search of my Mr Life Partner

Author: Namita Vyavaharkar

Author: Namita Vyavaharkar

Hello!!!! I am back after a really long gap!! So what have I thought to pen down today. Really speaking even I havent thought of that. Tomorrow I have exams from 10:00 to 13:00 and 14:30 to 17:30 hours, was really stressed out studying so thought of taking a break and speaking to someone. Now came the second thought who do I call? Then I thought why not come back to article writing. So where was I all these days? Have taken a new responsibility of Sales Excellence driving CRM and Customer Satisfaction within the Business Unit. I am very happy since its a golden opportunity to build on on my personal and professional front. Was travelling for training and then first interaction with teams pan India. Meanwhile also met couple of guys in search of my Mr Life Partner

It was a happy fun sad frustrating - in short all mixed up episodes. These guys that I met were all unique in their own sense. Somehow I have started feeling Gosh!!! What kinds of creatures are existing on this Earth? First guy was a businessman explained by his very humble father as smart and confident. When I met this guy he was kinda hanky panky. Gosh!!! Never!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! my heart screamed!!! Second guy was good. But somehow he seemed to be from the low strata of society, low income and a little older in age. He was indeed very sweet as the very next day he sent me an email saying he knew that the alliance would not be possible and wishing All the best for my future. Third guy was also good. Good as in belonged to a good family. Had just lost his father so was shouldering the responsibilities single handedly, seemed to be smart, future planning. Something bothered me i.e. he was simply bragging about himself, didnt even bother to ask me any question. Since his mother was out of station we met up with his Aunt. She seemed to be a pretty loving lady. The same evening we returned and Dad told me he feels relaxed finally we met a good guy. I also started giving it a serious thought. The same night the guy sent me a good night sms. I was happy to receive it. Next weeks went in travelling for training and then deployment. Following Saturday was the second meeting with his mother. They came accompanied by his maternal uncle. We all loved his mother. She seemed to be a very sophisticated lady. Uncle also seemed loving. I heaved a sigh of relief saying finally my train was back on track after derailment. In the meeting my Dad said if you people want to talk you can go in the inside room (This normally is the way the meeting happens in India). To which his reply was in negative. Something really ridiculous but still I gave it an oversight. But then we went and had good talk majority of which I was initiating. Both families gave a go ahead and we so decided and both of us would meet up for a few times before agreeing to take this forward. As days passed this guy started acting really whimsical no calls, no smses, no interest to take the alliance forward just a vague sms wishing Merry Xmas and Happy New Year. I even tried conveying to him what I felt about him to which he replied with vague answers which only proved he was male chauvinist. When my family starting planning for future I stopped them and shared what was bothering me. They said relax, with time everything will be ok. I agreed. Meanwhile I met another guy who claimed to be 27 years old, multi millionaire, International sitar player. We spoke to each other before finally meeting up at a Mall. On call he seemed to be pretty good. When I met him I sensed something was fishy as he looked much older. Also each of his claims were conflicting with what he wanted to convey. He was very good with his mannerisms but somehow I felt No way cant trust this guy. So this chapter was also closed. This guy tried his level best to emotional black mail me by sending sentimental smses of atleast continuing as friend. To which I just put a straight and plain The End Next I got a call from a guy who seemed to be funny, loving, supportive and energetic. We kept speaking to each other. He came home and family kind of felt he was good. So now what was the problem? Issue was he seemed to be a dreamer and immature for his age. He said he had done his Law and was working in the same field but with the kind of personality he was, I really couldnt correlate it. He also seemed to be varying in his decisions since at once he said he wanted us to really meet up with his parents. Next when I asked him what date and time can we fix up the meeting, he said let me have some time Another conflicting talking creature. Anyways I shrugged it. So, whats the end state now? Frankly the answer is even I dont know. Am actually confused and now irritated with the entire episode so far. Luckily friends, family and even Boss are being supportive when they see me low. So, even I have decided to just Do Hell with everything and concentrate on studies and exams. Somewhere I know God has lovely plans for me, an excellent future with a loving partner. God alone knows when this time would come!!! Anyways as everyone says Chill girl Live life with focus on one thought at a time!! So I am following the magical mantra with a ray of hope live in my thoughtsAbout the Author:

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