Expressing the 'Joy Quotient' (JQ)

Expressing the 'Joy Quotient' (JQ)

Expressing the 'Joy Quotient' (JQ)

Joy and misery: both are equally visible at the same time.

Whichever one commands our focus dictates to a large degree our next minute, hour and day - the present moment.

The Marriage Example

At times our partners do one lovely thing for us that we didn't ask them to do, but then they forget to do an equally important thing we did ask them to do. If we're in a 'joy frame' we see the former and don't worry about the latter. But if we're living the other way around - our 'misery radar' energised, which has happened so many times for me - we pounce on the negative thing - that thing not done - and don't see the thing that was done; the thing done in love!

Here we're often seen punishing good behaviour, not the bad.

Increasing Our Joy Quotient

We probably know about the Intelligence Quotient (IQ), Emotional Intelligence (EI) and the Spiritual Quotient (SQ), but do we consider the impact and relevance of the Joy Quotient (JQ) in our lives?

A high 'joy quotient' is the ability to see with rose-coloured glasses, though that's often unfairly derided.

This appreciative viewpoint is good in that it let's the odd bad thing past without much notice. It's a fuller portion of grace for those things. More and more in this day we're pressed from within and without to establish and maintain better relationships.

One of the only ways we can achieve this is by looking joyfully at life, noting the good things and undermining the variable not-so-good things. Unless these things call attention to themselves we're better to ignore them, showing people more patience.

Copyright (c) 2010 S. J. Wickham.

Steve Wickham is a Registered Safety Practitioner (BSc, FSIA, RSP[Australia]) and a qualified, unordained Christian minister (GradDipBib&Min). His blogs are at: http://epitemnein-epitomic.blogspot.com/ and http://tribework.blogspot.com/

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