Female Orgasms: What actually they feel?
Female Orgasms: What actually they feel?
Female Orgasms: What actually they feel?When it comes to the female orgasms, most guys are confused. Women want to have them, men want to deliver them. But all too often, the fairer sex's big-O falls among the ranks of the Abominable Snowmangreat, even magical, in theory, but not something that's often stumbled across.According to several major surveys, only 25 percent of women always climax during sex with a partner. The rest of us either hit or miss depending on the night, or never orgasm during intercourse at all.
What happens?
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Orgasms are one of life's greatest pleasures, bringing a host of physical and psychological health benefits.
When a woman orgasms, regardless of which area of her body you're manipulating, her body physically reacts in the same way. During an orgasm, she feels:
* stimulation in her clitoris
* her heart rate, blood pressure and breathing increase
* tension builds within her pelvis
* muscles contract throughout her body, especially in the vagina, uterus, rectum, and pelvic floor
* tension is released upon orgasm
It's folk wisdom that people can't think straight when they have sex on their minds, but when women have an orgasm most of their brains switch off. A brain scanning study showed that many areas of women's brains were deactivated during orgasm, including those involved in emotion. The effect was less striking in men, but that may be because male orgasms are so short they are hard to detect in a brain scan.
What Should Men do?
A lot of men don't realize that a woman's orgasm is more than just touching. A lot of factors go into assisting a woman reach her pleasure potential. For instance, women are emotional beings and they need a lot of time to emotionally and mentally prepare for an orgasm. Even if a guy can theoretically last as long as he likes during sex, a woman still isn't necessarily going to have an orgasm. If she's not receiving the right type of stimulation (persistent and clitoral), a guy can last longer than an episode of "Boardwalk Empire" and it's not going to make a difference. That's where porn gets it all wrong. Sex can be short and oh-so-very sweet for both partners.
Relax
It is possible to try too hard. Focus on enjoying the process, not on whether or not you will have an orgasm.
Communicate
Communicate with your partner your preferences when it comes to sex. Your partner cannot read your mind.
Encourage
If you or your partner are doing something pleasurable, encourage your mate to continue.
Enjoy
Learn to enjoy and feel comfortable with your sexuality. Your current inability to have an orgasm is not a reflection of your femininity, your psychological or emotional health. Putting yourself down just makes it that much more difficult.
Fantasize
Some women have trouble concentrating during sex. If that is the case, you may wish to fantasize, i.e., thinking about something sexual may excite you and may reduce negative emotions. If you feel that you are very close to achieving an orgasm, alternate tightening and relaxing your pelvic floor muscles. This may sometimes trigger a real orgasm.
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