First Date - Guys What Not To Do

Carla, a slim beautiful lady, classy in all ways just turned 45

. She has been an adviser at 'dating in your prime dot com' for almost 3 years now and has found her position very rewarding. She is comfortable with herself, and offers a dynamic outgoing personality that is a fresh breath of wind in a stagnant world. She doesn't think twice about meeting someone new, and is actively dating to meet the "one". Although she is not promiscuous, she is very willing to look at each outing as a fresh new experience and feels that she can never have too many friends.

Where is all this leading you may wonder. Well, we at 'dating in your prime dot com' believe in using your comments to give us ideas for articles. It was actually Roxie who was reading e-mails that suggested that we give the guys in our readership some well worded tips on what you shouldn't do on a first date.

Previous relationships have no place on a first date. She does not want 'the other woman' with the two of you. So take a word of advice and remember that you are carving out something new and the experiences that you are starting to share are those of your own...good or bad.

Dominating the conversation. Here is a hint, it is a conversation so let her get a word in edge wise. If she does have something to say about a topic, dont tell her that her opinion is wrong ..... because quite frankly, it is her opinion.

Men think that they can get the answer that they want by asking the same thing different ways. A man will get an answer from me when I feel that the time is right. If she is pressured, chances are that you not only will not get the answer you want, but you may not get many more answers to any question.

IT TAKES TWOA conversation is an interaction between two people, find a common ground or interest and let it go. Listen to her thoughts and ideas and don't be afraid to share your own ideas as well. And don't forget, name-dropping is a bad thing, share your REAL thoughts, dreams, and ideas because saying you know someone when you don't only will serve to show you as a liar. Honesty is the best policy.

When you first meet, the only money that really matters is the money which you will use to settle the bill for the 'date'. While money is important in life, remember that the Beatles said it best, 'Can't Buy You Love'. No woman like to think that she cannot pull her own so to speak. There are a great many relationships that we know of in which the lady is the bigger bread winner and those relationships are truly very very happy.

Five little things that if you overlook them, can not only have your attempts repelled, but may also make you be overlooked by a special someone. So take these as a reminder, while directed more at guys, ladies you too can learn. Watch our blog for further updates and answers to the emails that we get daily. Good luck, and enjoy your newest dating experience.

by: Tamra Levi

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