First Step to Get Your Ex Back
When I just got out of my long term relationship
, you can imagine how badly broken I was. I could not eat well. I could not sleep. My emotions is in a total mess. Trying to be happy yet feeling empty inside. Smile or Laugh for the sake of doing it. Nothing in the whole world is interesting to you. You know you need to move on but you cannot. You miss you ex badly and keep on looking at the silence handphone of yours, is it spoilt? If you understand what I mean, Yes, we all being through that and it was not a bit fun at all. There are so many things going on your mind and what all you want now is to get back to your ex boyfriend or girlfriend because you realized that you would trade the world for him/her.There are so many ways and tips to get your ex back but what is the very first thing you should do. When you are in a mess now, trust me, your head won't be thinking logically at all. So what is the first step you should take when you are thinking of getting your ex back?
Start Setting up Yourself Now
You are in a mess now. Nobody wants to get near to you if you are looking like a zombie as if your world is dead. Your mind is screwed too. All you can only think is how to get your ex back fast, what ways or steps to take or how to accidentally bum into her/his at her/his favorite hangout. Even if you bummed your ex on the streets, you might scare the living hell out of your ex and he/she will be glad that he/she has dumped you.
Change your mindset that your ex will be gone forever and you guys will never be together again. There are so many people out there getting back with their ex everyday. If they can do it, why not you? Start having positive thoughts; being negative will never bring you anywhere.
Start finding back your confidences. Where did your confidences went to? Remember the time where you guys were dating, the cold jokes you guys made, wasn't really funny but who cares. Where's that confidences where nothing can stop you and with your girlfriend or boyfriend in your life, you can take the whole world down.
Get a new look. Clothing always displays confidences of a person, as first impression counts. You will shock your ex that "Woah, how come I didn't see that confident people when I was with you." Impression will hit the home that your ex is losing out on you if you don't get back to him/her fast.
Start changing and bring the ball back to your court. By bringing yourself back to be who you were in the past and now EVEN better, makes the person want you back even more.
First Step to Get Your Ex Back
By: James Miche Peters