Five Mistakes Women Make With Men When Trying To Settle In A Relationship
Breakups are a difficult thing to deal with
Breakups are a difficult thing to deal with. Whether your separation is amicable or only one-side, it always leaves a bad taste in the mouth. Women have an especially tough time dealing with break ups and they usually view it as an end all situation. In their sadness, they start wondering what went wrong, what did they miss and other such questions.Consciously or unconsciously, women make mistakes and tend to do things, which prove detrimental to the good health of their relationship. Heres a look at the most common mistakes that women make:
Mistake 1 Believe They Can Change the Guy
When you get into a relationship with a man, you don't know him completely. Over time you may realize things you don't like about him and you keep holding on to him in the belief that he will change. Unfortunately, this never happens. If the woman actually tries to change the man, he becomes more adamant and stubborn. It is thus best to let a man be who he is.
Mistake 2 Looks Are Enough to Keep Him
Women are often mistaken into believing that if they just look pretty and sexy, it will keep their man with them forever. Looks are the key only at the beginning of a relationship. Once it is set off, the man needs more. This requires you to be prepared for good conversations and intelligent comments.
Mistake 3 Trying To Be Someone Else
The bottom line here is that if you aren't happy with yourself, how will your man be appreciative of you? You can groom yourself only to a certain limit to live up to a guy's imagination beyond that it is a drag for both of you. If you respect yourself as you are, he too will follow suit.
Mistake 4 Admitting Your Feelings Too Early
It is a bad idea to tell a guy in the very initial stages of dating that you like him. It will push him to believe that you are the easy and his interest will go away. Worse still, he may take you as a fickle minded person who just rushes into relationships.
Mistake 5 Not Paying Attention to Subtle Signs
Men give out subtle hints from time to time to indicate how involved they are getting with you. They can also give hints as to how deep they may be willing to go further. If you pay close attention to what they are saying and how they are behaving, you can pick up vital clues.
Some of the levels at which he will talk at:
Social level: General talks about life forms a major part of this. He will tell you about what he does and how he lives.
Emotional level: At this level he will talk about his emotional availability and the depths that he may be willing to go to.
Physical level: He will start acknowledging how beautiful and good you look. He will start suggesting to you things to wear and his general likes and dislikes as far as your physical attributes are concerned.
Love level: At this stage, he will openly let you know that he is willing to go ahead and build a complete relationship with you. He may also start talking about your future together.
By paying close attention to all these mistakes women make, you can take your relationship a long way.
by: chrisroberts