Five Tips on How to Eradicate Shyness

Five Tips on How to Eradicate Shyness

Five Tips on How to Eradicate Shyness

Do you wish you were one of those people who can make friends easily? Making a positive impression is in fact not as hard as you think. With a little effort and perseverance you can eradicate shyness. You must remember though that everyone is to a certain extent shy. Many people have learnt to hide it a little bit better or just to take no notice of it, but every one of us has the same uncertainties and low self-esteem.

For instance There was an actress I new and offstage she was very shy and had a stutter, but when she was on stage she had a very powerful character and her stutter would disappear. Many actors are shy, but when they are onstage their acting personae takes over them, thus, creating a powerful personality that ignores the shy person within. It is important to remember that everyone has their own foibles and it's not just you that finds it hard to communicate properly with other people. Here are five tips to eradicate shyness:

1. Say hello - many people are too afraid to do it. For example if you want to introduce yourself to a particular person because you find them interesting, but you feel that they wouldn't want to know the uninteresting you. This not the way to think about yourself. You have to take the first step and say hello because if you don't take that first drastic step you will never become a positive and confident person.

2. Listen to what people have to say. The fact is people like to talk about themselves. Be an attentive listener. Ask questions about them. In no time you will be a very popular person because you take the time to listen and don't waffle on.

3. Don't assume just because someone is good looking that they are brimming with self-confidence. You can be a beautiful person and still be shy. The thing is beautiful and shy people tend to be thought of as stuck up and unfriendly. This is not the case. An uglier shy person would be sympathized with because it is more obvious that they are shy, but no one can believe that an attractive person could be shy. If someone attractive is aloof with you try and understand that they may be shy like you.

4. Be flattering - if you genuinely like a person tell them what you like about them.

5. Don't constantly think of yourself. Constantly thinking of yourself will not integrate you with other people. They will assume that you are not interested in talking with anyone and that you are aloof. In social situations be aware of the other people in the room. Be helpful and assist the host with clearing away. The fact is by being helpful in social situations everyone will assume you are a friendly individual which in turn will help you to forget about your shyness and you will start to think more positive about yourself

The above tips are just a guideline for you to follow and integrate into your daily routine. As I mentioned before we are all shy to a certain extent. The thing is some people just happen to be shyer then others, but it doesn't mean that the really shy person cannot get out of their social phobia. It just takes determination and guts to become a more self focused person. So go ahead and become that positive, focused and happier individual you have always wanted to be!

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