Fix Your Relationship by Increasing the Passion

Fix Your Relationship by Increasing the Passion

There is one factor in a relationship that enables a couple to fix just about anything in the relationship. Without it, even the smallest bump in the road will seem like a huge insurmountable mountain. It is what enables couples to remain married even when major challenges occur. Without it, even small problems or bumps in the road can derail the relationship and end in a break-up.

The key factor to surviving any storm is the Passion that Connects you! That passion that underlies the relationship can be the glue that keeps you from throwing in the towel when things get tough. Without it, many of the other attributes that keep the relationship on track are either ignored or under used. With it, couples are more likely to communicate with each other more often and in more depth. It also makes it more likely the couple will work through problems or seek additional help rather than just giving up.

The problem is that people often let it slowly cool down and sometimes, to die away from lack of attention. Everyone wants to not only feel needed but also to feel wanted! The two actually go hand in hand. Remember what got you together to start with? It probably was not just the tangible things you would list now but the intangible things like feeling special, needed, wanted and appreciated.

When you are in the dating phase of a relationship, you put forth your best effort to attract the attention of the other person. It involves romantic jesters that make the other person feel the love and appreciation you have for them as well as hearing endearments that confirm it. What you do speaks so much louder that what you say. It does not matter how long you have been together, no one wants to feel like they are taken for granted. They certainly do not want to think that their partner believes that it does not matter what he/she does or does not do, the relationship will stay together no matter what happens. It takes work to keep a relationship together and much of the work is in the area of Passion and Romance!

Special time for just the two of you is crucial. Little things you do for each other that spark that romantic fire and strengthen the connection between you are important and should not be neglected. And guys, I am not talking about just sex. There is so much more to intimacy and passion than sex! Many times people do not realize there is a problem in the intimacy and passion until it affects the sexual area of the relationship. The problem is, the passion has been in trouble for a lot longer than that. When it seems like the only time you pay your partner any positive attention is when you are looking for sex, it makes intimacy the last thing they want to pursue.

In order to rekindled the passion, you have to go back to the beginning again. Start with small things like flowers or small gifts for no particular reason. Go out on a date and really treat your partner like it was a new relationship again, make your partner feel special. Things like holding hands, a hug out of the blue, or just snuggling up on the couch with no ulterior motive will make your partner feel loved and appreciated. Take your time and do not rush it or you will push your partner away instead of drawing them to you. In time you will have re-kindled and further developed that underlying passionate connection. When you have achieved that, the intimacy will grow naturally and the storms that come to your relationship will not break you apart. Instead, they will strengthen the bond between you as you work through them together.

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