We all experience the split up blues at some point in our life
, but the pain can go much deeper if you were truly in love. Some relationships end because it's the best thing to do, for both parties. But what about the good relationships that seem to end too soon? What caused those to end? Many times it's caused for reasons that shouldn't have led to a break up, and that always brings bad feelings to both sides. Download a free ebook on How To Get Your Ex Back If you still have feelings for your ex lover and would like to win their love back then you need to be very specific in your approach. Don't even think of apologizing right now. That's the last thing you want to do is start apologizing for everything under the sun. This approach will make you look desperate and it takes away from the genuine problem - the thing that broke up your relationship. Most relationships break up because there is one or maybe even a few lingering issues that are splitting up two lovers and slowly building a level of resentment in one or both sides. If this issue (or issues) isn't handled then it will reach a critical level which typically comes in the form of someone calling it quits. Look at a few typical problems that cause lovers to call it quits: Trust is gone Interest is gone Found someone else Wants and needs moving in different directions No longer compatible The issues above can be worked out, if you both still love each other. Once you know the issue, you need to work on how you can fix it. Any form of getting back together without addressing the issue that resulted in the split up will not be successful long term. So, identify the issue, work on how to resolve it, and discuss it with your Ex. Always keep in mind; communication is the key to a happy relationship. See how one guy won his girlfriend back at get my girl back