It's joked about by most men that they can't understand women, but if your girlfriend broke up with you and you want to get her back you need to learn what she needs in a relationship.
Show her appreciation. Women have the rap of being emotional beings. Possibly partly because of this they are nurturers and want to take care of people. Sometimes they feel that their man is like a child who needs taking care of. Likely, your girlfriend was willing to pay special attention to your needs and desires. If you didn't notice or praise her for all the little things that she did for you she can start to feel unappreciated. This may make a girl look for a guy who will appreciate her.
Keep it interesting. What girl doesn't like surprises? She wants her man to be spontaneous and romantic and do things without asking, like sweeping her off for a few days away alone together. Be her special knight who sweeps her off her feet by making her feel special,like sending flowers to her at work.
Don't forget the details. Women notice the details. Loving and intimate gestures are more important to them than big expensive surprises. Phone calls during the day, lots of hugs and kisses. Holding her hand at the store and flirting with her makes her feel really special.
Pay attention to body language. Women often don't say what they really mean. Rather they will express it in body language or the way they act. Does she say nothing's on her mind but keep looking at you? If you pay attention you will learn the way your girlfriend acts when she wants something from you but doesn't want to come out and say it. Try to be attuned to that and let her know you are there for her.
Hold onto her heart. Men think that once they've gotten their girlfriend that they don't need to try that hard anymore. But to a woman the wooing process shouldn't stop. she needs to feel like you are always trying to court and win her.You've probably heard that relationships are a lot of work.
Women are definitely different from men. After all, that's part of the reason that you are attracted to them,right? If you can show your girlfriend how much she means to you by following this advice then when you get her back she will make you a happy camper too.