How do you get what you want? Do you have to plead your case for commitment to get him to drop the other women and try a relationship? Is it time to make it real or let it go? Men love dating and sleeping around without commitment but at some point you have to get him to make a decision or dump him.
Casual dating is done, get him to give you the commitment you deserve or let him go. If he can't or won't choose to date exclusively after a few dates then he is pointless and a complete waste of time. Choosing to have a girlfriend is not rocket science; don't let him milk the clock from you while he continues to have casual relations with someone else. If you can't get him to give you the commitment you deserve, show him the door.
Don't devote to a man who can't devote to you. Date someone else at the same time to find a good man willing to give you more. Your man may not like this but let him know you won't commit if he won'; equal rights movement. If he's not hiding his others then you don't have to either. Have some fun, don't answer all his calls and maybe he will change his mind about commitment when he thinks he's losing you.
He doesn't deserve any sex. Your body is reserved for men mature enough to love you and respect your heart. Honestly, a woman who gives it up to a man who isn't her boyfriend yet, is just desperate and a slut. You are better than that, respect your body, and don't give into any man that doesn't honor you. Withholding sex is a very clear statement you want an exclusive relationship only. The jerks walk out but gentlemen remain still. Get him to give you the commitment you deserve and settle for nothing less.