Get My Ex Back – What She Wants…
Get My Ex Back What She Wants
Get My Ex Back What She WantsWhat does it take to keep your woman happy?
A tough question right... For all you guys, here's what I discovered while trying to get my ex back...
Always be you, but better...
Many of us guys just don't believe we're good enough to catch and keep a beautiful, sexy woman. We put on a show, an act we think the woman wants to see. We make the mistake of being over nice, being on our best behavior, paying for everything and trying just too hard to impress her... guys, women and especially attractive women have seen this all before...
Believe me, talking endlessly about your great job, or what a great car you drive, may impress certain women, but those are the women who will want you simply for what you have or more precisely, what you have to give. If your cool with that I guess is ok, but I think we all want to be with someone who wants to be with us for who we are not only what we have.
Don't get me wrong, women are and should be interested in the material side of life; after all you're going to partner her in providing for the rug rats, right!
My point is... Women are attracted to strong confident men, men who don't feel the need to put on an act or try too hard to impress, because amongst other things these men naturally make good providers.
It's not all about looks...
Have you ever noticed that some of the least physically attractive guys have some of the prettiest women? Could this be because they display a level of confidence and self-assurance that is more attractive to women than pure physical looks? Absolutely, when it comes to priorities, you may be surprised that age education and looks are not top of the list...
When trying to get my ex back recently, I came across a great bit of advice...(which was handy as I'm not the world's greatest looking guy!) And that is to take care of the little things that are so important to so many women.
Those seemingly unimportant little surprises, not just on birthdays or special occasions, but randomly and apparently without reason - do something special for her - something small. Like coming home with her favorite candy in her favorite flavor. It's not always about the big gestures, when it comes to building long relationships small things add up. The trick here is to make it random, unexpected and not too often. Just find small ways to let her know you appreciate and value her.
Another lesson learned while trying to get my ex back was how to listen, I mean actually listen, not that other stuff! A lot of us guys think that when a woman tells us her problem, what she's asking is for us to solve it, to find a solution and fix the problem. Sometimes this may be the case, but guys trust me, most times what she actually wants you to do - is just listen, to hear what she's saying and understand how she's feeling... got it!
Be sensitive to her mood...
Do you want to know what women really love? It's when a guy she likes makes her laugh; it's on most women's top want list, above good looks and even money... There's enough hardship and sadness in the world already. A woman wants her man to make her feel good, feel happy and to make her laugh, and what even better is, women like to play!
Women love to play around and they love to be teased, don't ask me why, but teasing a playing with women makes them feel attraction...
Recently while trying to get my ex back, I lured her into a play pillow fight, just kind of goofing around, she absolutely loved it... so be fun guys, don't take life to seriously... find ways to fool around and don't be afraid to make yourself look a little silly sometimes. Confidence and vulnerability are a winning combination, when it comes to attraction.
My final piece of advice is being open to new things. At the beginning of a relationship, everything's new from places you go, to the way you kiss her. But, after a while, things can become routine. If you're finding that in your relationship, shake it up! Plan a surprise, something new and exciting. If you want to keep your girl happy, be spontaneous! Have mini adventures, and make her feel special.
Final
word: You're a man... be one... deep down; it's what she wants...
This is some of what I learned while trying to get my ex back, and yes we are... and it's great!
I have put a link below to some crazy stuff to help you with your relationship and get your ex back...
I wish you all the best Brye...