Get Your Ex Back In 3 Easy But Powerful Steps
These few basic steps will work well if you're just now trying to figure out how to get your ex back
. I personally took this steps and started to get my ex back. It was not easy and simple as it now seems, but it will get you off to a right start. You need to know you"re on a right track. It might even get your ex back but more attracted to you then he or she was the first time around.So you're sure you want your ex back and you're willing to do what it takes here is what you need to do.
Do this first:
First step in getting your ex back is to take a few steps back. Huh?? I know how contradictory it may seem now, but you need to take some time for your self. First figure out why exactly do you want your ex back? What did he or she have that you want back in your life?
When we think about the past we tend to make it much more than it actually was, I don't know you personally, but the reasons you want your ex back may not even be real. Make sure you're not just chasing some dream fantasy you have and face your ex. Remember his or hers flaws and advantages, remember the fights and the good times. Try and remember you ex for what he or she really was before you take the next step in getting your ex back.
Your next step:
O.K. step two of three of getting your ex back. Now that you're SURE you want your ex back, it's time to get to know him or her again. This especially goes if you two had a longer relationship. People develop in different directions and are not even aware of it. Spend some time with you ex, getting him or her back is not a short process. It requires time for him or her to regain thrust in you. He or she may not even return your phone calls for now (you can find more on how to make your ex return your phone calls here) so just don't rush anything. You'll get a "date" eventually. Also don't call it a date, your ex is still hurt and not sure if he or she really wants you back so just invite him or her for a coffee. Don't call your ex up and say: "Hey do you want to get back together?"
Finally:
Last step in this basic guide is to take your time. Take your time, hang out with your ex and try to make them have fun with you. Flirt, play, talk... act like you're just stating dating only take it slow. Don't push your ex into getting back with you too fast. Enjoy the process of dating your ex again till you have him or her back for good. Make sure you"re offering your ex something he or she will not be able to refuse.
by: Owen Skyton