Get Your Ex Back - Open His Heart to Getting Back Together
Get Your Ex Back - Open His Heart to Getting Back Together
While there might be times when you would like to open his skull instead of his heart in an attempt to get him back, the first is rarely every effective in bringing about a happy reunion. The hurt and frustration from your breakup can be overwhelming and the pain in your chest is very real from your broken heart. Yet your ex seems to feel little other than cold contempt and disdain for you these days it might seem. But rest assured that behind that coldness still beats a heart that loves you in spite of what he might say.
Sure, right now he might be being stubborn and pig headed about this breakup and it might seem difficult to believe that this is the same man you fell in love with. He might act as if he really doesn't care and his words may wound more deeply than he realizes. It might all seem like a bad dream that continues day after day and you keep hoping that he'll somehow come to his senses. But every day is the same and it shows no signs of ever changing, does it?
The truth is that every day couples do get back together in spite of even the worst of circumstances. Couples with troubles worse than yours and couples that probably don't have half the passion and love that you and your ex once had for each other. But still you wonder what you can do to thaw his icy heart and make him feel something for you again.
While time is said to heal all wounds, time is simply something that you don't want to invest in if you can avoid it. Sure, there is a good chance that five years from now he might realize that he made a terrible mistake when he is married to some miserable woman that doesn't care for him half as much as you do. But where does that leave you? At that point there is little that you can do and you don't even want to think about the love of your life with another woman, never mind married to someone else!
But what can you to to open the lines of communication and soften his heart? What can you do to speed this process of healing the wounds from your breakup and get him to remember who you once were to him so the two of you can get back to being in love again?
It is often said that it's not so important what you say as how you say it and when dealing with a broken relationship such as yours and your man's nothing could be more true. As you have probably already noticed, any attempt to talk about getting back together or telling him that you love him is met with resistance that often borders on hostility. Talking about such topics only seems to make things worse and the lines of communication break down time and time again.
This is why it is necessary to choose your words wisely to slowly bring him around. At times you are going to have to almost work subconsciously to plant thoughts in his head that will remind him later of good memories instead of the bad. You are going to have to take responsibility instead of place blame. You are going to have to hold your tongue when you might want to argue or lash out to make him see the error in his thinking about you. It can be a tough road to walk when you're trying to get your ex back but with a little understanding, patience and heart felt love you really can bring him around.
After all, he did fall in love with you once, didn't he? What makes you so fearful that you can't get him to fall in love with you again? It happens every day in every country on every continent in the world. Couples break up and then come to the realization that they truly were meant to be together. The choice is up to you whether you want to win an argument or if you want to win your ex back