Loosing a boyfriend by breaking up can be a big letdown. What if you did not want to break up but your ex boyfriend thought it would be best at this time. Now you want to get your guy back but are not sure what to do. There are some things you can do to help attract him back to you that have worked for others.
Your first step is to give him his space for a while, if it takes a couple weeks that is fine. Don't call him or contact him by any method during this time. He wants to forget about any negative issues the two of you may have had so let him get past this. Once these negative thoughts start to fade from his memory he will start to remember the good times the two of had.
You know where he hangs out so set him up by bumping into him after you have given him his space. When you run into him act as though you have not been thinking of him. Make it look like it is nothing special to you that you saw him. Make a couple nice comments about something then excuse yourself and move on.
If he does not call you after this first meeting, try to run into him again after another week or two. This second time be more friendly towards him and start a conversation. You need to smile and act upbeat like you have been doing great. When you depart ask him to call you sometime.
Asking him to call puts him in charge of getting you back instead of you chasing him. If you find he is not interested at first play hard to get with him and show some disinterest, he may eventually turn around and want you back if you play this right.