Getting An Ex Back And Supercharging Your Relationship
Getting An Ex Back And Supercharging Your Relationship
All relationships are different and it is easy to think your relationship was unique and therefore you need a unique solution to getting an ex back. That is true to a certain extent. Although we are all different we are also very similar when it comes down to our needs.
There is always a good reason for a relationship to falter and unless you are prepared to closely examine where things went wrong there is no hope of the relationship working.
So the first thing to do is pin point when things started to go wrong between you and your ex. Once you have honestly worked out where it started to go wrong you have to fix that problem. It has to be a long term solution not just a band aid approach. If you feel that a drastic change has to be made and deep down you don't want to do that then it is time to let the relationship go. If on the other hand it is a reasonable solution make it priority and fix it. Once you have fixed the problem then tell your ex. They are going to be impressed that you took action.
Secondly, look back and think about your relationship, was it your Number 1 priority or did you both just let things slide. This is often the case. This can be easily fixed but needs a commitment from both of you. Every relationship needs passion; you need to make time for discussions and conversations, going out on dates together making the effort to give your partner your full attention.
The best part is once you establish times to do things together it becomes a habit which you can both enjoy. By making specific times to commit to going out like on a Wednesday it happens, if you leave it open to anytime it never happens.
By always appreciating how special the other person is you can build a long lasting relationship.