Getting Your Ex Back After They Have Cheated
Getting Your Ex Back After They Have Cheated
Many articles scream you should never take your ex back after they have cheated. Sometimes your ex is deserving of not being allowed back into your life keep in mind that sometimes they do indeed deserve to be allowed back into your life.
Forget the mentality "once a cheat, always a cheat"
Automatically stating that solely because your ex cheated on you that you would never take them back are something, which rings true of bitterness as well as resentment. Not only do you need to forgive your ex whether you get them back or not, you also need to forgive yourself.
Listen to your heart, not family and friends
Your friends and family will inform you not to take back a cheating ex. Please understand before you listen to your friends and family that they were not in the relationship and they cannot possibly be the experts on what is truly best for you. If you want your ex back, concentrate on this fact as compared to what everyone else will inform you. You must listen constructively to your friends and family members, while understanding that those which are informing you to not take your cheating ex back more than likely never liked them in the first place.
Ask yourself important questions
Upon realizing you wholeheartedly want your cheating ex back, you will more than likely face some very agonizing questions. You will be asking yourself if you take your ex back, will they cheat again? Nothing guarantees your ex will not cheat on you upon taking them back however, nothing guarantees your will cheat on you as well.
Couples have successfully reconciled after infidelity
You must also keep in mind that there are many couples who reconcile after infidelity. Some couples have benefited positively with reconciling, some couples have not. Which side you and your ex will join is solely up to both you as well as the amount of work you are both prepared to perform upon getting your ex back.
Be comfortable of your decision
When giving your cheating ex a second chance, remember that the second chance does not only apply to your ex, it also applies to the relationship as a whole. You need to maintain an open mind while ignoring the normal reactions one has when the realization of infidelity performed by someone you love, which occur. Whatever decision you make it has to be the decision you are willing to live with in order for you to move on with your life whether you get your ex back or not get your ex back.