, it can be done if you really desire him back. Be prepared to do some planning and practice some patience. Pulling yourself back together is the first order of business. Discovering your true self is very important. The person he fell in love with is the one you need to be. Change is inevitable. The change could be good or bad. No one can escape it. Self-evaluation is important. Face up to the changes that have occurred in your life. Sift through your whole life and rediscover where you are.
Go back in time to the moment you met your husband. Just being together made you feel good. You used to do thing that made you happy. You want to become that person again. The interest will reignite when he sees the woman he fell in love with rising to the surface. Looking for the old him might become his next goal. Your characteristics that he loved will bring back fond memories. Doing this will get you on the path of getting him back.
Getting your husband back means that you will have to communicate. Hostility is a big no-no. Do not avoid social encounters with him. Seeing you allows him to see the changes you have made. Simple social gatherings are great ways for you to see him. Conversation over a cup of coffee works. Spend some time laughing over a movie. Move to a new relationship with him subtlety. At one time you two had something good going on. Something happened. Let the good things between you come back. With some patience, you will succeed in getting him back.
You need not be afraid of sharing his interests when you are together. Comment on his looks. He needs to see you interested in what he thinks. Once he was the center of your life. No need to hesitate mentioning the good times. Let them come up casually in conversation. They could be fond memories for him, too. Memories of good times is a great aid in getting him back.
When you feel comfortable together again, bring in a little romance. Affectionate notes are good to send. Avoid putting any pressure on him. If you want him out of your life, that is how to do it. You are a woman who does not need him but wants to share the experiences in life with him. Getting your ex husband back might be right around the corner.