Divorce is a very daunting process for couples. It entails to undergo tedious legal process and emotional stress as well. Having "bad blood" among parties getting into divorce is a normal situation. Knowing that they opted to end a marital relationship because things didn't work out and relationships become sour can be devastating.
Blackmail and extortion are some strategies being done by parties who want to force the other party agrees on certain disputes and claims. Claims on properties, financial support and child custody are common cases for disputes. This is somehow brought about by anger and stress of people getting a divorce. They are not able to compromise and think in a balanced manner in order to settle disagreements on claims.
This strategy makes the process more tedious and discouraging. The party being blackmailed is being somehow harassed and forced to agree with the terms of the other party. This then will make the claims and decision favorable to the other party.
In as much as you want things to be favorable on your part, blackmail and extortion is not an option. Divorce will be effective if spouses amicably settle claims before going into court. Since they are already seeking ultimate freedom from marital responsibilities, they must ensure that no harm can be caused to each one.
Divorce causes hurt and tragic emotions. Ending what was once beautiful and harmonious can cause a lot of stress to anyone. Parties involved should make an extra effort to make separation less tragic, especially for the sake of the kids.