Good People Cheat Sometimes - How To Move On When It Happens To You
Waiting is really something to be patient with because it would be worth it if that someone is the ideal girl for you
. Imagine that she's everything that you're looking for wrapped in a package. You could not ask for more but to be with her for the rest of your life because she's the girl you've been dreaming to bring in front of the altar.A person who is in love is not really blind; it can see but doesn't mind it. You tried to put an image of her on your mind as the ideal one to the point that you didn't need to look at her imperfections. But what if she's done something unforgivable? It's something to do with your trust to each other. What would you do then if you find out that she's cheated on you? This proves that not all that glitters are gold.
Think Before You Decide to do Something
Reasons are very important before you decide things. If you still want to save the relationship, don't be too judgmental. Listen to what she has to explain.
1)Cheating doesn't mean she doesn't love you. Cheating rarely has to do with love or deep emotions for the other person. More often than not it's a matter (in the case of women who cheat) of internal conflict or getting caught up in the moment.
2.)Hate the sin but not the sinner. If she cheated on you it doesn't mean that she did it on purpose. Consider the fact that she is human and part of it is imperfection. The thing that she did, cheating is a sin but it's not a reason enough to judge her as if she has never done anything good at all.
3)Knowing She's Cheated on You Could also Play a good role in Your Relationship. Definitely - it could do something good in your relationship. It's a caution that there is something not good going on so you better fix it before it's too late.
How to Move on If You Just Can't Stay With Your Cheating Wife
It's really hard to move on especially when the thought hunts you. Knowing that she had another man aside from you tempts you to bring back the past which would be the cause of your fight in the future. It's unbearable on your part since you had expected too much from her but she disappointed you and the fact that you've waited for her for too long added to the pain. Here's something's to be done to get over her.
1)Remove painful reminders from your home, daily routine, and list of plans. Depending on how long you were married you may be surrounded by painful reminders of your wife. Find a change of scenery or purge your home of those things that make you think about her.
2)Date Someone. One way of moving on is to go out, have fun and find new acquaintances. Dating won't essentially mean a long term relationship instantly but it's a way of getting used to the idea that you have a life and you practice to be single.
3.)Be busy. Make yourself unavailable like engaging to different activities whether it's work-related or anything social. Change your calendar activities or add schedules on your vacant hours. It would best help you to avoid thinking of her and another step closer to moving on.
by: T Dub Jackson.