Have Control in Your Romance – Get a Comfortable Relationship
Have Control in Your Romance Get a Comfortable Relationship
Are you always losing control of your romances and you don't know how to keep the upper hand? Is it the guys you meet who are too overwhelming or overpowering that leave you feeling meek? Or are you the one who lacks confidence and you seek out the guys who will take control? Sometimes there's a reason why we're attracted to a particular kind of guy. However, we can sometimes end up regretting the very choice we made. Take a better look at your next attempt at romance.
Before you even step out to meet a new guy, you need to find the confidence in your own voice. You'll never be happy if you always try to just do or be what a man dictates. You have a right to have things go you way and, believe me, there are plenty of men out there who want nothing more than to make the woman in their life happy.
Start small if you're a bit too timid at the start of a relationship. Suggest an outing or simply tell him the kinds of things you enjoy doing. Right away you'll see the kind of man you're dealing with. The control freak will just ignore what you say, while the man who has the potential to make you happy will take note of every comment or suggestion.
When you meet a guy who's open to hearing your point of view, you might still cling to the habit you have of holding your tongue. But don't rely on him to make all the decisions for too long. He may grow weary of it and really long to hear you speak your mind.
Though no man wants a woman who takes complete control of a relationship, he does want her to have a mind of her own and he wants to try to do what he can to make her happy. He'll respect you, even if he doesn't always agree with you. And you'll be happier in the long run.
Speak up and tell him what's on your mind. You'll see that a little control in a relationship can go a long way.