It was my husband, not me, who felt that our marriage was completely over and often threatened to end it
. And he wouldn't lift a finger to help me save it. I knew that it wasn't over and I refused to give up. But, for a long time I drew on negative emotions rather than positive ones. This seriously backfired. Thankfully, I realized my tactics were not working, changed course, and finally laid my cards on the table. You can reada very personal story on my blog at http://isavedmymarriage.com/