Help Me Save My Marriage Now

Help Me Save My Marriage Now

Help Me Save My Marriage Now

"Saved my marriage", she said? How does one go about doing that, all you ever hear of is people getting divorced and splitting up? Now you must be really curious, Yes! Here are four simple steps to follow to saving your relationship.

"Let us not play the blame game anymore. It is very destructive and has in reality, nothing to do with our partners. Blaming our loved one is like attaching a rubber rope with a steal ball on the other end, to our head and throwing it at our partner. It is bound to come back to you and chances of ending up with a sore head are very good. Blame hinders us from seeing ourselves clearly. Considering your situation, self evaluation is imperative at this point and it cannot be done if others are being brought into it. Learn about your shortfalls and start with active change, turning yourself into what you potentially are destined to be. Be the best you can be, for yourself first! Do not blame anyone, especially yourself, but concentrate on fixing the problem areas.

Take responsibility. That does not mean taking the blame, but recognizing your shortfalls and then actively per-suing the solution to the problem. Formulate a plan to get through your problem areas. Taking responsibility also means being honest enough with ourselves to see where we are not totally on par."There are actually steps that one can follow to save my marriage? This takes a lot of courage as most of us choose to ignore our short comings and we dismiss them and say,"this is who I am, I'm never going to change." The truth however is quite the opposite as life is all about becoming the best we can possibly be, living at our optimum potential. A whole person, balanced and confident.

How about getting some help from an outsider that has a subjective opinion? A professional that deals with this kind of thing every day. It is always beneficial to get help with marriage related problems. You might say that its too private to share with anyone, but believe me it has a positive effect on relationships when there is a third party to help coach and give expert advice on personal matters concerning your marriage. If you feel that you don't want to go that rout, read as much as you can on the subject, try to pinpoint the problem areas.Find solutions to your specific needs. The more you are aware of where the problem areas are, the easier it will be to take care of them one at a time. Do it for yourself! If you feel good about yourself, your partner is bound to feel the same way!

"I am saving my marriage." Well, there is one more very important thing to do before we can say that. Take action NOW! Do not procrastinate! You have to act and keep up with your schedule and plan. It has to be an ongoing effort. Make bad habits into good ones. If you do not you are destined to have a broken heart. "I want my loved one back!", is a continuous effort, and is going to cost a lot of hard work, but hey its worth it, not only are you adding value to yourself, but you are also adding value to your relationship, which will take all those for granted feelings, and turn them into trust and mutual respect for each other. People often suffer from shock, and are unable to do anything about their situation. Be aware of this fact and know when you are not acting. Do do do! If you are serious about saving your marriage take action now!

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