Your marriage is at an extremely precarious precinct and you believe you require assistance to rescue your marriage
. You have tried all means known to you to no avail. Instead of helping out, it is your marriage that is ebbing out.
You might have also tried talking to marriage counselors about this but they have not been able to provide any meaningful help to resolve this impending disintegration of your house. You may not believe me but I tell you that the solution lies in your very hands.
First off I definitely want to ask you about your commitment level to the marriage relationship. Are you fully committed or better still does your partner see you as being committed? How much attention do you give to your partner at home? When he comes back from work are you ever there to welcome him.
As soon as she does your cooking, laundry, or take care of your kids, do you ever think it necessary to thank her? That in itself is a good enough reason why your marriage may be facing the present problem.
How much do you communicate? In this present age where both partners are in the working class; mates will probably find it challenging to take out time with one another for themselves to communicate.
Individuals just keep their worries and problems to themselves with no body to divulge it to and this end up leading to dissatisfaction on the part of each partner. It's time for efficient communication to resurrect in your marriage if you truly wish to keep your marriage from falling apart.
You'll have to make out time for one another, time to empty your minds to each, time to ease up tension. Be very willing to listen to the other person. The discussion shouldn't be one sided. By the time you are through talking with each other the desired change would have been enacted.