Help me Save my Marriage- Save a Failing Marriage

Help me Save my Marriage- Save a Failing Marriage

Save a failing marriage. It can be done. People end marriages for many reasons but one of the biggest is that we are disappointed in our spouse when they begin to display traits that we dislike.

A marriage (or any relationship for that matter) takes work. You need to work at it for it to be a success. Alot of times, people emotionally check out of the relationship instead of taking the effort to work on it. You can save a failing marriage. You have to make a committment to making it work. Keep telling yourself that divorce is not an option in your life. Don't hold on to any belief that it can't work or it wont work. Don't give up on your partner.

When you feel that you want to disconnect from your relationship, that is the time to kiss, hug, have sex and to basically nurture and reconnect. Don't just say the words "I Love You" Show it.

As the old saying goes "Rome wasn't built in a day"- Saving a failing marriage wont happen overnight either.

Some Tips to Save a Failing Marriage

* Learn not to be selfish. Give more and get more

* Make sure your feelings aren't being dismissed by your partner and do not dismiss their feelings

* Share your feelings and fears with your partner

* Separate what you can give to yourself from what you need from your partner

* You must set limits with your partner so he knows what you you expect and what you wont tolerate. You also need to hear your partner's limits

* Evaluate your own expectations. Chances are, they're still filled with some sort of childhood dreams or fantasies. Don't want to run because things don't quite fit your "perfect" image. Look at your spouse's strengths instead of just focusing on their weaknesses

* Act, don't analyze. You can change your feelings and your partner's by actions, not by words.

* Don't try to sell your spouse on your way of doing things. Stretch your own comfort zone and learn to love him the way he is.

As human beings, we tend to have the greatest resistance to change when we need it the most. Change can be scary as hell. If we refuse any type of change, you probably wont be able to save a failing marriage

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