Every year, there are many children being bullied and this is mostly happening in school or playground where there are lot of children gathered around
. The type of bully ranges from teasing, threatening, verbally or physically assaults. This is heart aching to see children at this age which is self defenseless being bullied by other children. The bullies are mostly bigger children or they are in a group with the same mischievous behavior. This is very unfortunate as children at this stage of life are in the process of learning how to accommodate and blend into the environment and growing to become more independent to look after themselves. This type of bad experiences can leave a deep impact on the child and can last for a long period of time or worst life time. This is important and should not be shunned away and need to solve it properly. Children that are being bullied will develop a character that is more timid and has less confident in dealing with people and problem. This can affect their character when growing up and cause them to be less self esteem when they turn adult. The big bully on the other hand also suffered unknowingly in their process of forming their character. They will develop a stubborn, rude and aggressive character that will cause them to be difficult to control and violence when they grow up. Normally this type of children are not being properly taught at home or come from a family that always shout or get angry easily. There are ways to discover whether your child is being bullied or the one that is bullying some children. Either one is not good for the child during the growing stage and should be addressed and change gradually. Choose a good school or playground Statistically have shown that most of the bully situation takes place in school or playground. Hence it is important to handle these places right from the start. School or play ground with lots of rowdy or shouting children are not a good place for the child to learn or grow up. What can they learn when all day long are children not behaving themselves and shouting at each other? Worse if the school or teachers are not dedicated or sensitive enough to handle the children. Go to the school and observe the child and speak to the school principal and teachers. Understand how the run the lesson and the challenges they face. Avoid school that do not have anti bully policy to protect the children.