How A Rebound Relationship Can Work In Your Favor
How A Rebound Relationship Can Work In Your Favor
So you've broken up with the love of your life and she's now in a rebound relationship. Now you're asking how can you get her back. I'm going to share with you the way to make a rebound relationship work in your favor.
The definition of a rebound relationship is one where your ex is dating someone to try to get over you. They're using that relationship to occupy their mind and time while they're managing the emotions of the break up. They're usually used to help people move onward from their real love.
This is the key you'll use to get your ex back. She is only in that rebound relationship in an attempt to deal with losing you.
The reasons why she lost you, whose fault it was, and who actually ended the relationship are unimportant pieces of data. What's important to know is that she's your real love and you want her back.
Any relationship based on real love can be savedincluding yours.
The person she's with in this rebound relationship is going to be the virtual opposite of you. She's going to move to the opposite end of the spectrum in an effort to forget about you. If you were a nice guy, she'll be with a guy who fits the bad boy' stereotype. If you were into outdoor activities, she'll be with a guy who is a homebody or academiac.
This is actually good for you. The fact that she's working to have a man who is the opposite of you says that she's still thinking about you. She's doing comparisons between you two. This gives you a chance to see what she's really looking for in a companion.
Your ex being with someone so different from you says that she was missing something in her relationship with you. Use this separation time to work on improving yourself and offering her what she was lacking during your relationship. Maybe you were always playing some sort of sport with your male friends and she was missing one-on-one quality time with you.
Don't try to jump in the middle of the rebound relationship. Let it run its course. If it isn't meant to be it won't last for long. Time with him will highlight his flaws. After about a month, she'll be looking back at you with eyes of desire. You'll be looking really good to her.
You don't want to rush back to her too quick. You don't want to be guilty of premature reconciliation where you run back in at full speed at the slightest sign that she wants you back. Give her a chance to miss the good things about her relationship with you. When she's ready to resume the relationship with you be receptive and forgiving. Don't be petty and bring up her time with the rebound guy. Welcome her back with open arms. Without mentioning it just be the boyfriend she wishes she'd never left. But don't you chase her. Let her come back to you.
Here's a list of specific things to do when your ex is involved in a rebound relationship:
* Don't use any persuasion tactics to remind her that you're the love of her life. You want her to decide that on her own.
* Don't be overly apologetic. If there's something that you did wrong, say so one time and move on.
* Don't promise to make a whole lot of changes. You are the person that you are. You're who she fell in love with. Be yourself.
* Don't spend time discussing who was at fault for the break up. Either she'll see it over time or she won't. Don't make her waste energy convincing you that it was your fault.
* NEVER beg her to come back to you. Either she wants you or she doesn't. Let the decision be completely hers.
Just know that if your ex started going out with someone else right after you broke up then she's in a rebound relationship. You have the chance to make up with her and get back together. You want to do this right though. The Magic Of Making Up is a step by step approach to regaining the love you've lost. Get it now and see even more clearly How A Rebound Relationship Can Work In Your Favor. You can make a few crucial mistakes and mess it up forever. I want to save you from that pain.
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