How Can I Get My Ex Back Even If He Has Moved On? 7 Top Tips
If you have recently broken up with your boyfriend
, you are probably hurting, and could very well be asking the question "how can I get my ex back when he's moved on?" It is a natural question to ask, but the worst thing you can do now is feel sorry for yourself. Now is the time for action, all is not lost. It is still very possible to get your man back, even if he seems to have moved on and is with another woman, so don't despair.Take a look through these seven top tips. I am sure you will take heart and realize all is not lost.
1. Convince him he still wants you. -- This may seem obvious, but remember what first attracted him to you. Try to remind him in a subtle way, this may just do the trick. If you don't see any results then move on to the tips below.
2. Be his best friend. -- Be there for him. You're ex will appreciate the connection, and what better way than to remind him what he is missing. Talk about moving on, and let him know you are looking for a new man, a little jealousy works wonders believe me.
3. Keep communication friendly. -- No matter what led to you breakup it's time to put blame and negativity to one side. When you talk keep it light and friendly, he isn't going to come back if you keep reminding him of the bad times.
4. Play a bit hard to get. -- If he is showing some interest, now is the time to play a little hard to get, not too much though as you don't want to push him away again, but this will really fan the flames of your budding reconciliation.
5. Don't at needy or desperate. -- There is nothing less attractive, so no matter how much you feel like doing it don't beg or plead with him to come back. If you do, and in the unlikely event it works, all the power in the relationship will be his, and it wont be long before it all goes wrong again.
6. Return his looks with a sidelong glance. -- Whenever you find yourself in the same place as your ex, don't make direct eye contact, rather if you feel him looking at you just glance back at him out of the corner of your eye. This shows him you are interested, and yet says you can't just have me back that easily at the same time. It doesn't hurt to raise your mystique and allure in his eyes at a time like this.
7. Remind him of the good times. -- Be subtle, but try and steer any conversation you have to remembering the good times you had together. This will help to remind him just what he threw away, and he may decide he made a mistake, and want those good times back again.
I hope these points have gone some way to answering the question of, "how can I get my ex back when he's moved on." Remember most relationships can be saved, and could even become stronger as a result of this little hiccup.
How Can I Get My Ex Back Even If He Has Moved On? 7 Top Tips
By: Tony Kitson