How Can I Get My Ex Back When Everything Seems Completely Hopeless?
How Can I Get My Ex Back When Everything Seems Completely Hopeless
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You have tried all that you know to get your ex back after the break up all to no avail. You have sent emissaries and you have done some begging too on your own part, and still you have achieved nothing meaningful. The tips that are discussed below can go a long way in helping you to achieve your aim even though everything seems completely hopeless.
I suggest you call your ex once more. Tell him/her that you are sorry for everything you have done to piss him/her off. Tell your ex that you can understand why he/she refused to listen to your plea. And that you have made up your mind to let him/her be. Wish your ex good bye and God speed in all his/her endeavours. After this call, you will need to break every contact with your ex.
Your ex will be taken aback by your message. This is the last thing he/she will be expecting from you. The thought of you forgetting about him/her won't be an appealing one to your ex. Your ex will like to still have you around, even if all he/she has for you is abuse. This action of yours will earn you respect in the sight of your ex. By this, you are already occupying an important position in his/her heart.
Now it is time for you to concentrate on your self. Do self examination; ask yourself deep questions about yourself. Find out those things that had led to the break up with your ex. Work feverishly on yourself and make necessary corrections.
Make yourself a better person. Improve on your reasoning ability. Improve on your social inclinations. You will also need to improve on your appearance and get knowledge on how to manage a relationship. All these will go a long way in helping you gain confidence and dignity.
When your ex chances to spot you, he/she will scurry back to you in no time.