How Can I Save My Relationship?

Maybe your relationship or your marriage is almost hitting rock bottom

, and you're debating if you should call it quits or muster the strength to fix it and save the relationship. Honestly, it could be a hard decision when it has come down to thinking about quitting your relationship. If you're faced with this kind of situation, you should definitely consider things before making your last decision.

What are you expecting from your relationship and what are the things that are missing? Now, try and see if you can provide answers to the following questions. Your sincere answers to them will provide clues on what your final decision should be.

1. Does your partner flare up at the slightest things and do most discussions between you end up in squabbles? 2. Does the thought of your partner make your heart sick and weary? In essence, do you have the feeling of a looming fight at the thought of your partner's homecoming or visit rather than anticipating it with joy? 3. Do you wish you never entered into the relationship in the first place and wished you were with someone rather than your partner? 4. Is there a dent in the respect you have for your partner? Do you still hold him/her in high esteem or has your love for each other completely died out? 5. Has there been any case of physical abuse and if so, how frequently? 6. Do you suspect your partner is cheating on you? Have you attempted a peaceful discussion about this issue of infidelity and it ended up in a fight? 7. Is there a serious communication gap between you? What steps have you taken to bridge this gap? 8. How is your sexual relationship with your partner? Is it still fun or have things gone so sour that you no longer enjoy sex, but see it as a mere ritual?

So you read the questions and if most of your answers to the questions are yes, you need to think deeply, weigh the circumstances appropriately and determine if you can still manage the relationship or if you want to give up and quit in order of peace and freedom. If you think that the relationship can work well again and there is still some hope, don't hesitate to seek for help. One of the steps you should take is to seek proper counsel and guidance from a relationship expert.

Having a good conversation and communication has always been the best way to solve most of the problems and misunderstandings. So before looking for a marriage counselor try to talk things over with your partner and devise new and better ways to present your issues.

by: Jacqueline Gharibian

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