How Can Older Men Attract And Date Younger Women
The common misconception amongst older or more mature men is that younger women are afraid to have dates with them and so find older men unattractive
. In fact the reverse may be true because there are many things girls admire and are impressed with more mature guys and what they can offer such as security, dependency, confidence, wisdom and maturity amongst many other attractive virtues. That is why most women ended up marrying guys of varying age gaps who are older than themselves.Another reason why girls prefer older guys is that they mature faster then men and find older men more appealing than their younger counterparts because the latter still behave with the male bravado of their teens and can't move away from their adolescence or so it seems. Therefore mature men may stand a better chance at attracting younger women if they know how and dare to do so.
If you can show that you have no hang ups with your age and are very comfortable about letting the girls know it, then you are portraying an image of a confident man which is a very attractive male persona as far as women are concerned. Whether true or not, in a woman's psyche, older men are perceived to be more mature, more responsible and are better lovers.
Women love to have a great time. Who doesn't? So if you show them that you can give them a great time and is fun to be with, then age is of no barrier because the ultimate aim is to have a good time and have fun. Of course if you behave like and grumpy and cranky old man, everyone will be running away from you, not just the girls. So show your fun side and make the girls laugh along with you and they will find you very sexually appealing.
Being a more mature man, you have seen the world and its idiosyncrasies more than the younger girls and are much wiser for that. However, everyone has different viewpoints, opinions and perceptions, so don't act as if you know everything. Respect the views of the younger women. Hey, you were once young before and you know how it felt like when someone else older than you was showing off how much he/she knew, right? It was a real turn off, wasn't it? So be a gentleman and younger women will find you much more impressive.
Since older men are probably more stable in their careers and are ahead in the work place and social hierarchy, women find that older men are able to give them more security than younger men can. These guys will somehow have a more powerful aura of male dominance and self confidence than their younger counterparts which are very attractive to women. These older men are rightly or wrongly perceived as being able to stand up for their women and women are always impressed by men who can offer them protection, shelter and security.
So if you are interested in dating women younger than you but were afraid to do so, don't you think it is time to start now since you know now that you have as good a chance or even better odds than younger men in attracting women?
by: Chris Chew