How Can Panic Mess Up your Plan on How to get your Ex Back
Now that the love of your life broke up with you
, your world definitely is turning upside down. Right now, all you want is to know how to get your lover back in your arms. Although love is the most important factor in a relationship, we must admit that it isn't enough for most of us.Love, as we say, is the most vital component of any relationship, but that is not the only thing a couple needs. Respect, understanding, and loyalty mixed with so-called love are the perfect combination of all. But sometimes, no matter how strong the foundation of a relationship is, emotional disasters and tribulations often push couples to grow apart.
If you're in love with someone and you've been seeing yourself with him or her in the future, chances are you will really panic when your partner tells you that the relationship is over. Say you did something that aggravated the relationship or you became too familiar with each other that the excitement and thrill of being together is no longer there, it's still alarming to realize that the relationship you once thought perfect will suddenly crumble.
And because you are already experiencing this circumstances, try not to panic and pull yourself together first before trying to make any move. Try to suppress that panicky feelings, calm down, and plan out what you need to do on how to get your ex back.
While your emotions about the breakup is still fresh, there are certain things you tend to do that won't help you get your ex back at all:
Say untrue things
Say things that will drive your ex mad
Trying to make your ex feel jealous
Use of unkind words to make your ex feel bad
Behave like a stalker
Taunt your ex and rehash old arguments
Seek revenge
These are all easy to do, and they can easily ruin your chances to get your ex back, too. So what should you do in order to avoid initiating such unhealthy moves?
Take a break. Stop calling, emailing, stopping by or showing up at locations where you think your ex will be found. Showing him or her your love after the breakup is not a wise thing to do. The truth is, you'll just end up terrorizing your ex and will drive him or her away from you.
Evade avoidance. If in case seeing your ex is unavoidable like you work in the same company, go to the same school or have the same group of friends, saying hi and hello can be done. Being civil with your ex is not that bad after all. Just a smile and a friendly greeting will do and you can go back with your own business. Ignoring your ex while you're in the same site will make him or her think that you are still bitter with the split up.
How Can Panic Mess Up your Plan on How to get your Ex Back
By: Ben Cawiezell