How Is Your Long Distance Relationship Working Out?
Have you or any member of your family ever been in a long distance relationship
. With this kind of relationship being gone only a short amount of time you can still have problems. The longer amount of time involved can really put a lot of strain on even a relationship that has been going for years. We mean say you get a good job and the rest of the family can not leave at the same time. The longer you spend apart you become the more restless. This can even happen to those who are just dating. Your mind will always put terrible thoughts in your head and with you not being able to be with them you had better have a lot of trust.
Sometimes all the trust in the world is not enough. Your family and even your so called friends can make you think all sort of terrible things. Even the little things like not hearing from them for a couple of days can cause you heart-ache and god forbid someone tells you they are cheating on you. This alone can cause either one of you to get mad or even call the whole thing off. Our society runs on the idea that you have to keep a strong hold on a person to make it work. Our military personal and their families are one prime example of long distance relationships and even some marriages. One or even both these members of a family can be away and the one left behind will go through the hardest times.
Many of you manage to make it work and if asked you would do it again. You would definitely say yes but also hope that you do not have too. Even just some of the strain can become too much and you will fall apart. With some they might not get the chance as they will find that they have lost this special someone they love. But in the end when this person does come back you can restore your faith in this person and go back to making this work.
If you happen to find that your long distance relationship is going to be longer then you thought you should sit down and really think about if you want to wait for this person. If you decide that you still want this person then it will be up to you and them also to do whatever it takes to keep this strong until you can be together.