How The Experts Pick Up Women All The Time!
How The Experts Pick Up Women All The Time!
Have you read The Game by Neil Strauss? It's credited with popularizing Pick Up Artists (PUAs). Dating has become enjoyable again for the many men who've read the book and are following its guidelines. The tips discussed here should work well for you, whether you're experienced or new to dating, and will make your dating life pleasant and enjoyable.
Pick up artists come in two types. Memorizing different routines and stories to impress women, the first type works very hard for success. The pick up artist carefully crafts and hones each of these routines and stories, crafting them to make women feel more attracted to him. Mystery is the prime example of this kind of pick up artist.
The other type of pick up artist uses what Strauss calls the "natural game." This fellow, rather than memorizing lines and stories, uses his own natural charm and personality to achieve success with women. His approach is spontaneous. If you've read The Game, you'll recognize this approach as the one used by "Juggler."
There are advantages and disadvantages to each approach. My preferred approach is "natural game," but I've seen success achieved with both techniques. There's a lot of work involved in memorizing all that material. And think about it - which would you prefer, being liked by a woman because of a story you fabricated, or because of your own personality, who you really are?
It doesn't matter which approach you use, however, if you don't concentrate on your inner game and who you really are. The term "inner game" is used to describe the real you - who you are, your beliefs, and especially your own self-confidence. Here's what that means: if you feel unattractive and shy, the number of routines and stories you've made up and memorized is immaterial, because it's unlikely you're ever going to approach a woman you find really attractive. The other side of the coin is this: if you're confident in your ability to approach and talk with women, you'll be able to approach any woman you want to - even the most attractive - and carry on a nice conversation without fear of being turned away.
Another point: take it easy. Rome wasn't built in a day. Concentrate on the basics - your self-confidence, your inner game - and as these things improve, you'll find yourself with more women than you ever dreamed would be possible in your life! Be single-minded - when something stands in your way, holds you back from success, you must focus all your efforts on overcoming that obstacle. For instance, I had a terrible time with shyness. I devised a challenge just for the purpose of overcoming my shyness: I had to stop and talk with 100 strangers a week. You've got to figure out way of overcoming the obstacles you run into.
I think that of all the guidance I can give, though, one of the most important is also one of the simplest: consistency. Find a style you like and stick to it. You might be familiar with the type - the fellow who buys a book, skims it, and then tries one or two pieces of advice, before giving up and turning to another book. After trying many approaches briefly, they'll denounce them all as ineffective. Honestly speaking, though, these guys could have saved themselves a lot of time and money if they'd simply chosen a single approach, learned it well, and stuck to it.
Thus, if you really want to achieve dating success, my final tip is to find one technique that you're comfortable with, learn it thoroughly, and stick to it!
If you liked this article and you want to learn some more PUA tips and routines, check outPick Up Artist Tips andHow to Pick Up Women.
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