How To Approach Women - Opening The Conversation With Her

Chances are, when you want to know more about how to approach a woman

, what you are really hoping to find is some pick up line that is going to make her become putty in your hands. And chances are also good that if that is what you are hoping to find - then you are probably feeling disappointed by now. Because there really isn't that one magical line that is going to make her end up being putty in your hands. You might as well stop looking for that right now and instead, focus on what actually works.

Opening the conversation.

That's really all that a pick up line is going to do for you anyway. It's just going to get the conversation started, as long as you don't use one of those ones that are so bad, she just ends up walking away from you. So, what you really should be focused on is having a good way to open the conversation with her. If you have that, you have your "in" with her and that makes everything so much easier.

So, how do you open the conversation with her?

Before you think about that, you should really think about what comes before that and that is the actual approach that you use. Because if you approach a woman the wrong way, it does not matter what you use to open her, she's not going to be feeling any initial good vibes at all. You want her to feel that. The best thing that you can do is to approach her with a totally friendly vibe. The kind that makes her automatically think that you are a good guy and that you are not some slimeball who is just out to hit on and pick up women.

Once you have that approach down, your opener should be topical to what is going on wherever you are that you meet her. An example of this would be approaching a woman in a music store as she is looking at CD's. You can point out something about the CD that she is looking at, preferably something that is going to make her laugh a bit, and that should be good to get her ready to talk to you. It doesn't really matter what it is that you talk about, just try to keep it topical to whatever is going on around you and her, because then it seems perfectly natural and she won't even think that you are trying to open her or pick her up in any way.

by: Chris Tyler

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