How To Approach Women - The One Approach That Almost Always Works

Do you hate the idea of having to walk up to a woman you don't know and try to find

some way to make her think that you are cool enough that she'll want to get to know you better?

Do you feel like it's a little "not your style" to try and approach a woman just for the sake of pulling her phone number?

Well, you might not feel that way if you were used to making successful approaches.

Back when I used to suck at approaching a woman, I hated the whole process with a passion. That is, until I figured out how to make it work for me.

Here is a way to approach a woman that almost always works to make her have a good opinion of you:

1) You have to make casual eye contact and smile at her when she makes eye contact back with you.

It has to seem casual or else, she'll know that you are trying to pick her up and that changes the dynamics and puts her on the defensive. Most women have been approached by guys with horrible and sometimes downright creepy game, so they begin to build up a wall to defend against that. You don't want to have to go breaking down any walls, so make it seem casual, make it seem like it is totally not a pick up at all.

2) Find one thing that she is holding or wearing that you can ask her about.

If she is holding a drink, ask her what it is. If you are out shopping and she is holding up a CD, ask her what singer or group it is. If she isn't holding anything, ask her about something that she is wearing. Just give yourself a valid reason to get a conversation going with her. Make it funny, make it seem like you kind of already are friends with her.

3) Up the ante a little bit and start flirting a little with her.

You obviously are not out to make a whole lot of female friends just for the sake of having female friends, so make sure that at some point, you up the ante and go from just friendly conversation to flirtatious conversation. Move in steps. Don't say something like, "Oh, I like that band too. Wow you are hot." That kind of transition isn't smooth and it doesn't usually work that well.

4) When the conversation is going good and she is flirting back, find a reason why you have to leave.

This is the point where you are going to be able to pull her number without it seeming like that was all you wanted to do in the first place. Of course, this only works if you have been having a fun conversation and you have escalated to flirting back and forth with her. Before you lose any steam, you want to make up a reason that you have to move on. However, you want to make sure that you grab her number before you go. As long as you have been progressing with her, you should get her number 7 or 8 times out of 10.

by: Chris Tyler

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