How To Attract Her Back - No Matter What You Think, You Can Get Her Back

The mind can be either your biggest ally or your worst enemy when it comes to attracting back your ex girlfriend

. See, for some guys, they end up having all of these thoughts that revolve around their ex girlfriend, and it makes them feel almost helpless. You don't want to feel that way, not if you are going to be successful in your attempt to attract her back into your life as your girlfriend.

The way that you think about your chances of getting back with her can have a very profound effect on how the situation ends up playing out. Think that you are going to lose her to the next guy that comes along, and you will end up acting out the part of the jealous ex boyfriend, even if that is not your intention.

Here's what you need to do to attract her back and make her YOURS all over again:

1. You need to eliminate the doubt and the confusion that you feel.

Are you going to feel some insecurity? Of course. That is only natural. After all, you can only feel that way if you really care about her and losing her would mean a shock to your life and you don't want to experience that. However, having a mind that is filled with doubt and confusion will keep you in "limbo," wondering what you could possibly do to win her back. You need to get out of that mindset and have some confidence about your odds of winning her back.

2. You need to do your best and be your best.

This is not only in reference to how you are when you talk to her or when you are around her. Of course, in those situations, you want to be your best. However, you also want to be that way in the rest of your life. Lots of guys will let the funk of a relationship breakup cause them to enter into a downward spiral in all areas of their life, and that will not help you out at all.

3. You need to work on rekindling the spark with her.

If the flame of attraction was still there, then she probably would not have broken up with you, that's reality. However, the chances are really good that it has not died out completely. You need to rekindle that spark and bring back the romance and attraction that will bring HER back into YOUR life.

by: Chris Tyler

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