How To Create Attraction With A Woman - Should You Be A Nice Guy?

Usually when you find dating advice for men on the web

, it comes from 2 schools of thought. One that says that you should be a super nice guy and do all of the "golden rule" kind of things and that will make a woman fall in love with you. And then, there is another school of thought, where the predominant message tens to be that you need to be a JERK to attract women.

Well, I think that by now we should all know that life is a balance, so if you pay attention to just one school of thought or the other, you are not going to get the best results possible. And that is what I think that you are really after.

You don't want to have some success with women. You want to have a LOT of it.

So, should you be a NICE GUY to create attraction with a woman?

First, you need to take a look at what creates attraction with a woman. And most of that deals with pulling the right triggers and pressing the right buttons. Basically, it all comes down to making her FEEL a certain about you, and to make her feel a certain way when she is WITH you.

So, just doing nice things really will not SPARK that attraction with a woman. And truthfully, if you go overboard and you try to be "nice" every moment that you are with her, then you are just really trying to manipulate her into feeling attraction for you.

And that usually does not work out so well. Plus, you do run the risk of her starting to see you as the kind of guy that is a little too much of a pushover, a guy that does not seem to be able to hold his own ground.

Basically the very antithesis of an alpha male.

Conversely, if you are always a JERK to women, then what are you really doing? You are probably not really a jerk, so you are putting on a false front. Eventually, that is going to backfire on you. Either you will be too much of a jerk and end up saying something that turns her off for good, or you will end up getting to a point where it just does not feel right for you.

You have to have a balance and you have to focus on creating the right emotions to make her feel attracted to you. Yes, you should be a nice guy, but NO, you should not be too nice to try and make her want you.

by: Chris Tyler

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