How To Destroy Approach Anxiety Easily

How To Destroy Approach Anxiety Easily

How To Destroy Approach Anxiety Easily

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Well if your reading this article you know exactly how it feels to be in a bar or club or even just in the queue at Starbucks. See a really hot girl, and think I really want to go and speak with her and meet her but just cant. You freeze up, get nervous and then start running through all the reasons you shouldn't go and speak with her. She's way out of my league, she's probably got a boyfriend or my favorite, What can I offer her?

Well I'm sure you can relate. I was very much the same, I'd see these beautiful girls really want to walk over and speak with them and get to know them but worry far to much that I would bail and look stupid, or the girl would just not want me to go over and speak with her, because hey what would I have to offer her? I mean I would see all these other guys with these hot girls and wander how the hell did her get her??? The simple fact of the matter is, he got hold of his balls and went and spoke to the women her thought was attractive, he was a decent guy and they hooked up! So he had one up on the rest of the competition. I just wished that I could shake this anxiety off, and pluck up the courage to go and do it!

So after years of having this horrible feeling of worthlessness I decided to do something about it! I began by simply searching on the internet to find something, anything that would give me an insight to squash this stupid feeling that stops me speaking with beautiful women, like you have done to find this article. After reading about the psychology behind what was causing this feeling I realised that it wasn't the approaching the women that unnerved me it was the rejection I feared, that is the real fear for us men. The REJECTION! Now knowing this I began thinking what is that worst thing that could happen if the girl that I approached rejected me? Well if I was polite, and respectful surely she would be the same back? However we know that not all women or people for that matter are the same. So I began running through "worst case scenarios". Such as the women saying, "Listen just go away and leave me alone" or "Listen I'm not interested in you creep". Yeah harsh I know but I wanted to deal with the Worst Cases. Anyway after thinking about this, ok i may look a little foolish as she has rejected me in the front of her friends, but really so what? Will I die, no. Will I never meet another girl again, no! Does she want to come across as a bitch, well 99% of women don't no. So why am I so reluctant to speak with women? Answer I really couldn't answer that!

With this new found clarity I began to think about and being excited about speaking to women, however I now needed to find the right thing to say. Back to the internet for some more helpful advice, and boy did I find some. I came across a guy called Dean Cortez who has some fantastic advice on meeting women.

This guy is a genius when it comes to approaching women, what to say, where to take the conversation and even how to set up a second meeting, all within a few minutes. He has got it all down in a great ebook called "Bullet Proof Seduction - Ultimate Approach". It is one of the best books I have read and is filled with fantastic techniques to cure approach anxiety, how to make a girl feel connected with you instantly and how to say 3 words to her that make her not want you but NEED you! To find out more about this great book go tohttp://bulletproofseductionreview.blogspot.com/. I'm only half way through and feel 10 times more confident about approaching and dating women, so check outhttp://bulletproofseductionreview.blogspot.com/ for the full scoop!

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