Another vital step is to make a list of options and alternative solutions and then to pick the best one to use
. Even include the wacky ones too this way they will not keep invading your thoughts and therefore hindering your efforts. You know the ones I am talking about like taking a hammer to the computer as silly as this sounds it actually is not. How many times in the past do these types of wacky solutions cross your mind? Once you write it down as a possible your mind will let it go.
You can write the steps down, or keep a list in your head you need to do what works for you. Consider the outcomes of the available choices, as well as alternative ideas. Consider your feelings and the feelings of others in your decision making process. Sometimes it is good to just follow your gut instinct even if you do not have much to back it up.
Think of your gut instinct this way, it is an amalgamation of all the experiences and similar situations you have been in and your subconscious is telling you the answer, on the flip side though be aware that your gut may be getting things mixed up so do not just take its word for it have a reason to back up following it. Explore your initial feelings about the decision and also, take the time to consider the feelings of the other people involved.
Do not be afraid or let your ego get in the way of asking for help when you need it. In todays world it is less and less seen as a sign of weakness and is becoming more like an accepted thing to do. Most of the time you do not have to be alone with your major decisions, and if you need to make a decision quickly, it will definitely help to get another brain working on the situation.