We'll tackle one of the hardest things to improve right from the beginning: your self esteem
. A health self esteem is one that's confident but not overly macho. You should be able to feel confident in the decisions that you make and in the way that your life is moving. Confidence is built on many things including the fact that you have to realize that you do have weaknesses and you do have limits to your abilities. Accept those, work on improving them if you can and then do the best job that you can overall.
In addition, learn how to accept compliments and to take criticism. Getting down on yourself because someone doesn't like the job you did isn't okay.
Although challenging, you need to be able to say, "Hey, I did a good job!" You also need to recognize when it wasn't your best work and realize that it's okay not to be perfect 100 percent of the time. Learn to take criticism positively. If your boss says that the job wasn't good enough, ask what you could have improved on for next time. Then, you set yourself up for success rather than a pint of ice cream!
One way to improve the way that you look and feel about yourself is to take care of your outward appearance. Those that dress well, take care of the way that they look and those that do things for themselves are the most confident people out there. Just putting on a beautiful outfit can make you feel good about yourself.
Always think positive and feel positive. You need to limit your mind from bad news and gossip. fulfil yourself by gratitude and posistive attitude