How To Get My Ex Back When He Has Moved On
More than likely, you are reading this article because you lost a boyfriend and now
starting to get some advice on "how to get my ex back when he has moved on."You can get over the moping, because what you've lost doesn't necessarily mean you've lost it for good.
What you should do is take the following quick pointers and uncomplicated tips and use them on your journey to get your ex back -- even though he has moved on with the other woman and doesn't seem to be too interested in you any longer.
1. In this first step to get the love of your life back, it requires convincing him that he rather have you than the other woman, so finding a way is key.
Unless, of course, he has made it perfectly clear that he wants nothing more to do with you, then your only recourse is employing a different set of options herein on.
2. The best advantageous thing you should do to get the ball rolling is become his friend. In other words, be a very good friend by showing him how much you really understand him, without creating any drama when near him.
In fact, show that you can establish a healthy platonic friendship when joking around with him. Once he sees the stress and drama part of the relationship and break up have dissipated, he might come to the realization that you're the one he really wants.
3. When communicating with your ex, always be kind and sweet but be yourself -- it doesn't hurt to show just a little attitude also.
The plan is wanting him to want you, but you want to make him feel that he can't have you right now.
Although playing games isnt an option on your journey back to him, you should play hard to get so that it increases his interest in you.
4. While playing a little difficult to get, you want to make certain that he is aware that you're really available.
Again, just be yourself and don't avoid the concept of socializing with friends and flirting. This can actually work in your favor, whereas a little jealousy from him is okay -- however it's important to play things a little safe because he may think you're not available, and therefore less inclined to pursue you.
5. Whatever it takes avoid the act of desperation. When acting desperate more than likely your ex will see you in a negative way.
In order for these tactics to work, you must play it cool while making sure he realizes that you're okay with his decision to move on, and that you're willing to do the same.
Any act of desperation can cause things not to work out as planned, so keep that in mind and avoid making a costly mistake.
6. Whenever you notice that he's looking at you or have a feeling hes looking, don't stare back at him. Instead, always look away or make it so that you can see him from the corner of your eye.
This side glance approach will show him that you're mysteriously showing awareness of him, but you want to give off a signal that says "you can't have me" right now.
7. Feel free to casually reminisce with him about some of the good times you both shared together.
When sharing good memories together it will remind him how great things used to be when the both of you were together.
However, don't make the mistake of bringing up bad memories. This will only remind him of the bad things that occurred, which works against what you are trying to accomplish.
Take these "how to get my ex back" steps for what they are worth and make them work for you. They will put you on the right path to get him back.
by: Phil Sumpter