? Are you one that finds that your girl is always busy and everything she does you do not like to do? Do either one of you like to do anything that the other likes to do except having sex? Your girl might have a job that keeps her on the road a lot or there are just somethings that she does not want you to know. It might not be a bad thing, like having someone on the side, but it takes up a lot of her time. She might have to take care of an elderly adult, her mother or dad, or she is taking care of a younger sibling. She might feel too scared to tell you about them or she does not want to burden you about the problems she might be having.
When you do get with this girl of yours you will need to be patient with her. Make her feel comfortable enough to talk to you about whatever is on her mind. Show her how much you understand even if you have no idea about what she might be doing. She will come around when she is ready so it is up to you to be patient. When she is ready sit through her whole story without saying a word and then tell her that you understand and you support her in whatever she thinks needs to be done. Sometimes this girl might be just to shy. Then she might think she is not pretty enough for you.
With most girls their looks are everything and even before you meet them they might have been told that they are not pretty. If you have a girl that feels this way you will have to be very careful about what you say. Even the girls that think they are very pretty can be hurt by the things you say. It is so important to watch what you say and then how you say it when talking to any girl. One little slip of the tongue can make or break a date.
Some of you might have a girl that you just see when you want a good time. Even with these girls one slip of the tongue could ruin your plans. Most of these girls are only there for the sex as well but even they can turn you down if you say the wrong thing. But with these girls you have other things to worry about, well you know.