How To Get Women With Sexual Frames - A Step By Step Example
How To Get Women With Sexual Frames - A Step By Step Example
Because most guys don't clearly understand how to get women using sexual frames, I'm going to break it down into a step by step process with examples. For our first frame, we're going to get her thinking of herself as an adventurous person. Only an adventurous woman would go home with a guy she just met that night, so we're going to position her into this way of thinking.
One technique you can use is the "bait, hook, reel, release, rapport" technique. This is where you get information from her, give her a compliment that sets this frame in place, and then build rapport through it.
You say something like, "Hey, I wanted to ask you, do you consider yourself adventurous?"
She says, "Yeah, I think I'm pretty into adventure."
This is the information you were looking for. Now, you reel her in with a compliment. Tell her that you love adventurous people because if you don't take risks in life, where does it get you? Give her compliments about her adventurous personality by talking about how cool you think it is when people are like this.
You can also use this information to build rapport. Start telling you how you like adventurous people because you're adventurous yourself. It's no fun hanging out with somebody who has no sense of adventure.
Then, you blast it all away with a non-sequitur. The reason you do this is that it takes her off guard and draws her attention away from what you're doing. For many girls, if given a minute to think about it, they'll see how you're reeling her in. You can also throw out a non-sequitur if things go wrong. The whole idea is to distract her and take her mind off of what's happening.
A good non-sequitur is "Oh, you're such a dork!" or "You suck, I hate you!" and a playful, gentle punch to the arm.
Once the first frame is in place, you set the second frame. In exactly the same way, you convince her something about herself that will help you later. Instead of "adventurous," you're going to frame her as being "spontaneous."
Give her the same bait and hook, and use compliments to reel her in. Build rapport by talking about your own spontaneous personality, and blow it away with a non-sequitur.
By advancing from one frame to the next, and mixing it up with different framing devices, you'll get her to believe what you want. And this will set the stage for moving things eventually to the bedroom. This is a technique in how to get women in bed that works!