How To Get Your Ex Back - 3 Tips To Make Him Want You Once Again
How To Get Your Ex Back - 3 Tips To Make Him Want You Once Again
I know you want to learn how to get your ex back. However, if your intentions are unrequited, you will have a difficult time finding back lost love. You see, if a guy makes up his mind about breaking up with you, he probably thought long and hard about it before mentioning it. (It is simply because guys want to avoid troubles/confrontations at all cost.) So, these 3 tips that I'm about to share with you will show you how to make him want you once again so that you can get back the love of your life.
Tip #1: Grief and let your emotions out, but not in front of him
Give yourself as much time as you need to mourn the loss of a relationship that has been so special and meaningful in your life. The hurt you feel is evidence that you have been brave enough to open your heart and love someone completely. You have been courageous in love before, which only means you can be brave again. Love will come to you again - but for now, just be with your feelings and acknowledge that you are healing, growing and glad to be alive.
Using this method to sort out your feelings will allow yourself to handle future situations better and make him more attracted to you. After grieving, you won't be emotionally unstable when you talk to him. This is an extremely attractive thing for guys because girls that are overly emotional, scares them away. Please understand that you are still being true to your feelings, just that you don't show him the negative side of it.
Tip #2: Use your energy to heal instead of focusing on negative stuff
Your ego mind will play tricks on you and tempt you to doubt your self worth when your romantic relationship ends. But, if you want yourex lover back, you will need to find a way to regain your self-confidence and love for life. So after grieving about the temporary loss of your partner you can regain your self-confidence by looking for little ways each day to make yourself feel good. For example,
smile at your reflection in the mirror and tell yourself how pretty you look;
praise yourself for a job well done when you've accomplished or put in your best to complete something;
acknowledge what you did for the day;
give thanks for your blessings;
This is actually a very powerful technique called affirmation. It helps in the overall well-being of a person. By affirming yourself everytime you look in the mirror, or complete a task, etc, you body reacts well to that vibration and you will see the results. The key is to be sincere about your affirmations. I understand how difficult it is to stay positive right now but think about it this way, your ex is going to come back to you if you do this! It is a good reason to stay positive right?
Tip #3: Agree to the break up.. Just for now...
This might sound a little crazy but agreeing with your ex about the break up will actually throw him off balance and make him re-consider his decision to leave you. He will be shocked as to how mature you are. You see, the more you try and change your ex lover's mind, the more he or she will resent you for undermining their decision. Instead of going against your ex boyfriend's wishes, just give in and agree. It seems romantic to try and get your lover to stay. But, in fact, your ex will feel more loved, accepted and understood if you will respect his decision for now.
What you can do is to write him a note saying that he is right about the break up and you are ok with it. Don't send emails, text or call him to 'agree with the break up'. The key tohow to get your ex back and want you again is to make him have a little doubt about his decision to leave you (even if he doesn't show it).