How To Get Your Ex Back - 7 Biggest Mistakes to Avoid
How To Get Your Ex Back - 7 Biggest Mistakes to Avoid
Breakups! if you have experienced one, or maybe your going through one right now you'll know the pain and unhappiness they can cause. The feeling of loneliness, heartache and sadness can overcome you.That feeling of lonelyness and loss can often make you realise what you had, realise the grass is not always greener on the other side. It's only when you partner is gone that you relise you want want your ex back.
If your finding yourself lying around thinking what you did wrong; find yourself unable to listen to songs or watch TV without thinking about your lost love. Everything reminds you off them, even the silliest of things.
Breaking up is a horrible time, all sorts of things run through your mind as you try to work out what happened, what went wrong. You find yourself lying quietly thinking about your ex, in some cases even missing the arguments. It's while you're sitting quietly that you realise what you had together was great, somehow, and maybe you're not sure how? Everything between you just got out of hand in the end.
Breakups happen for many reasons; Partners can feel that they are not understood, valued, loved and taken for granted. Work can get in the way, causing your partner to feel a lack of closeness and connection, which in turn can be overwhelming and can cause great loneliness.
When all the dust settles, and you finally have time to sit back and quietly, you start to remember the good times, the times you were happy, its then you realise, that more than anything right now, all you want is to get that special someone back. But how do you go about winning back your ex?
What Not To Do
The 7 biggest mistakes people make to get back with an ex. These mistakes, listed below, actually push your ex further away........
1) Trying to become the person you think your ex wants.
2) Dressing nicer
3) Apologizing for your behaviour
4) Scheming manipulative strategies
5) Showing your anger
6) Showing your pain
7) Showing your neediness and desperation.
Any of the above may get your ex's attention, and maybe what you believe they want, but without finding the true problems that caused the split a happy ending will never come.
If you show any of the 7 in the list you may find they will feel sorry for you. Having an ex feel sorry for you may feel good, because any form of attention and care from them is what you crave, but this is not going to win an ex back.
The only way of getting back with your ex is to be real. Be strong, realize your mistakes, work out what you did wrong, what went wrong, why it went wrong. Face up to your faults and what you are feeling.
Winning your ex back is not about trickery or manipulation. Nor is it about making your ex seem like they caused all the problems that they were in the wrong.
Most "getting back with an ex" books on the internet are full of "whatever it takes" moves to hide or disguise what went wrong in the first place. Which means, even if you DO get her back, it won't last?
Winning an ex back has much more to do with your character, with the very fabric of who you are, than it does with what you did or what you wear.
Please don't take it as a done deal that you can win your ex back, winning them back - for good - is going to be challenging and you'll need all the help you can get.
So if you're ready to get your ex back for good, do it now!
The longer you wait, the less likely they are to get back together with you.
Check out this free e-book, Get Your Ex Back. You could be on your way to being happy again and back with the love of your life.