How To Get Your Ex Back In Todays Hard Times
There are news reports that Americas economy is growing at a rate of over 2% yet
many are not feeling optimistic and there are those who continue to have trouble making ends meet. A relationship itself comes with a lot of costs not just financially but also when it comes to managing time. Think about it. Dating is one of the many activities that come with relationships and dates can cost a bundle on dining, traveling, watching movies, etc. Even the prospect of getting married comes with unsettling ideas about expenses, not to mention other things that follow it such as personal health insurance, taxes and a whole lot of other concerns. With all of these said, a relationship is itself an unpredictable expense and a time consuming trial. Some people break up due to crumbling love or for economic reasons, or even both.So what should you do to get your ex back in the middle of economic trials and tribulations? Imagine for example a woman lost her man because the stress and demands of his career made him distant from her resulting lesser time spent and lesser communication. Knowing that her ex is going through a period of hardship that affects him socially and financially, the woman can take her time before communicating or meeting with him again. While waiting, she can focus on her domestic concerns simply no romance while trying to make sure her ends will meet. After all, stability is important in any relationship financially or socially.
After waiting between a few weeks to a few months later, the woman can call or meet her ex (who at this time should be in a more stable position and hopefully has not found any new romance yet), ask him how hes doing in his career (wishing him well is a nice gesture), and ask him if its okay to meet (and hopefully socialize) with him. Of course, this would open the chance for reconciliation.
While meeting each other again after the breakup and separation that followed, it is best to sit down together, talk and listen to each other with a deep sense of understanding. Reconciliation would not be complete admitting your mistakes or the things that were left undone that contributed to the breakup.
It is also helpful to discuss certain aspects about each others careers (not necessarily about money) and if you know something the other seeks to learn about jobs and opportunities, take the initiative provide assistance through helpful advice as this would help restore the trust. Other than being honest and transparent, it is also nice to be caring because the lack of caring attention is one of those elements that lead to crumbling relationships. From this point on, the ex lovers could forgive each other and restart the relationship. These are the steps on how to get your ex back with economics and jobs in mind.
by: Dan KUrdi