How To Get Your Ex Back - The Best Steps To Take Before It
Yeah, sure they say that 'breaking up is hard to do
,' but what about when you screwed up and come to the realization that breaking up was a stupid thing to do? Let's get real, all of us have done it at some point'who knows maybe even as early as a cocky 10 year old. In the heat of a moment, you say something stupid like 'it's over.'No matter what the reason may be, breaking up can be a very emotionally draining experience and sometimes one that is extremely difficult to get over. For the extreme, there could be suicidal tendencies but on average, we're talking about ability to sleep or eat, or perhaps just remain focused.
Although people will claim that their break-up is different, or that their situation is unique, all break-ups are all the same. We all go through the same process. Whether you are looking to recapture your love or just move on, there are a number of techniques which might help you move on with your life. The Fast Forward Technique described in the Magic of Making Up uses a system that teaches you to trick you subconscious mind and helps your conscious mind get over the break up.
If your intent is getting back together with your ex, then knowing the process to follow will be your key to success. TW Jackson, author of The Magic of Making Up lays out a complete system for you to follow and walks you through the process of a break-up. He's apparently been able to help many people reconcile and move on with their relationships. Like so much in life, it's all about the guidelines and knowing the rules. Unfortunately the rules for getting your boyfriend or girlfriend back are typically not found in black and white.
Even if you had a rule book, there would still need to be a secret mix or ingredient to make sure it works for you. Some way that you would need to tweak the recipe or guidelines to make sure it works for you.
Have you experienced that all your actions, in attempting to win him or her back, actually has a reverse action and pushes them even further away? There can't be anything more frustrating because your intentions are good; you want to make it work. You drive yourself crazy with images, of her sleeping with someone else while your bed is empty. Or you see him on the dance floor completely captivated by the young fluid movements of the brunette you thought was your best friend. All I can say is 'ouch!'
Well enough of this self-pity, if you really, really, really want to there is a way to get your relationship back on track. ' How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back' is a system using some proven techniques, which you can tweak. Best part of learning the system'it can be useful for many other arguments, when it's important for you to sell your point of view.
Let's say you approach your ex-girlfriend with just about any type of request. More than likely the immediate response will be 'no' typically followed by hanging up the phone or walking away. How about if you could turn that rejection around into an acceptance? Here's how it works, rather than badgering her about the 'no' response, follow-up with a pleasant acknowledgement and attempt with another request. Let's use this as an example:
Question - 'How about going to the movies with me this Friday?'
Answer 'No thanks, remember, we broke up.'
Statement 'You are right and I think there's more to us before we call it quits.'
Question 'I know you are busy but perhaps we could meet for coffee, even just for 30 minutes. Can we meet this afternoon, there's a new little spot that I think you would enjoy?'
By simply following up a rejection with a positive, you stand a 90% chance of getting what you want. You will always win by acknowledging the rejection and restating your case in different terms. In this example, you are buying some more time to plead your case and eliminating the chance for them to continue with a negative response.
For those on the other side of the fence, 'how to get your ex-boyfriend back' shares secrets for winning him back before it's too late.
It might be crawling, running, or dancing back to you, but in the end, it's all about the magic of making up. Why waste any more time?
by: Michiel Van Kets