How To Get Your Ex Back - The Do's And Don'ts

Everyone will agree that surviving a break up is tough and full of pain

. The pain is there, no matter who broke up, you or your partner. No doubt, love has its pros and cons. However, you have to understand that love had been there at one point. Love is a magical thing. There is no way of getting your ex back with one one call, although you ended it with one. What you have to do now if you want to get your ex back is follow some steps and you might have your ex back in your arms within some days, weeks or months. Of course most of us will take this chance.

The first thing you will have to do is to calm down. Most break ups include bad fights and harsh words. So there is definitely some time needed to calm down for both of you. Feel all the hurt and let out all the tears. This will help calm you down faster. Then call your ex. Tell him or her that you are fine with the break up; talk about it on the phone. In case your ex does not want to talk to your write him or her a letter letting him or her know that you are doing fine with the breakup. Then show him or her that you can live life happily even without him or her. This is a psychological tactic designed to make the other party think about you more because immediately after the break up, he or she is certainly missing you.

After the first step, your ex would most certainly be thinking of you, of how he or she had hurt you. It's hard to believe, but fights are actually good and healthy - they make the relationship even stronger. Take time to think about the reason for your last fight (may be your last fight was on the break up day).

So do loving couples fight to hurt one another? Fights always have a deeper sense of meaning to couples, an underlying love for one another. It's now time for a face to face meeting. So this is what you want to initiate now.

When you meet act like friends. Intimacy is a no, no - physical and emotional. You should keep everything very casual. It may take some time and some "accidental meetings", however, after a while his or her feelings will explode and he or she wants to get you back.

by: Rita Miller

POST COMMENT

How Do Anti Sperm Antibodies Affect Vasectomy Reversal? One Important Reason Why You Should Consider Choosing The Sex Of Your Baby Three WoW Tips to Hit Gold Cap Fast Taking Bee Pollen for Women Fertility - Will Pollen Help Reduce or Cure Female Infertility? Intracytoplasmic Sperm Injection Females Can't Do Muscle Building? Really? Tips Of Buying Sexy Lingeries 3 Reasons For Choosing Thesexylingerie.com How To Buy Sexy Lingerie On Line Having Sex With Herpes - Your Sex Life Doesn't Have to Be Over Because of Genital Herpes Sexy 3d Models And Pin Up Girls My Experience with The Ejaculation Promise Last Longer During Sex – Method How to Last Longer